How to Save Any Relationship: Did Your Ex Leave Because There Was a Commitment Problem?

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Shawn Wants His Ex Back

"Need help NOW!! Can i still get my ex back? Ok... We only dated about 3 months, but we both fell in love and things were AMAZING. We are both in college, going to the same school. Things were perfect in my opinion, but one day my controlling behavior, and me being too insecure became too much for her and she left. I felt HORRIBLE. I had lost probably the best thing in my life at the time. And to make matters worse, i begged and begged and begged for her back. All attempts failed of course. That only drove me even more depressed. So as a last resort, I ignored her for a few days, and went ALL OUT on valentines day. Surprising her with a diamond necklace, bear, chocolate, and a note basically pouring my heart out and telling her I miss her and asking her to just open her mind to the possibility of us ever getting back together. This turned out to be DEADLY. She returned my gifts, and let it be known there would no NO CHANCE she'd ever give me another chance. She said she doesnt give second chances, so once its over, its over. And shes said that a number of times, making it clear she doesnt want to be with me. BUT... what caused our breakup was not the fact that i hurt her. I never hurt her. I didnt cheat or hit her ever, which are some things i can consider are good reasons u wouldnt give a second chance... All i did was act selfishly, something ive owned up to and agreed to work on. Its a problem that i KNOW i can fix, yet she said she can not give me a second chance over this... This makes me soooooo frustrated and depressed at the same time... sooooo, I let it all go, and decided to erase her out my life after she returned my gifts. After 3 days... she texts me. saying she still exists and that she feels like **** over the way things happened. I told her i agreed with the breakup, and we can go our separate ways, and that our timing was just wrong. No hard feelings, just accepting it is what it is. (even though i cried later that night and still do occasionally) :( SO.... obviously she told me she doesnt wanna be with me, but cant seem to let me go. It gives me mixed signals. She told me she never give me a second chance, but I REALLY want her back. I really feel shes my soulmate. I dont know what to do cuz she acts like she's scared to lose me as a friend and walk into another girls arms, but then again i remember she said ill never have a second chance... Neither of us are dating right now. So im in a heavy dilenma. My heart has to get her back, i cant see myself being with nobody else. So do i forget about her and cut her out my life? Or keep hope alive in the back of my head, because the crime i did wasnt all that huge to begin with? Oh and i returned the bear to her because she liked it. Bad move? We still text and see each other randomly thru school... and shes pretty flirtacious the one time we were alone, but with her friends shes acts stuck up... and i recently told her there is no way we could be friends, and she acted fine with the idea... so please people, i need help! Shawn"

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